The Qubool is the acceptance of the proposal, and it's important to know that you dont have to say yes right away. plz help its urgent.. ..Allah apko ajar day. Couples will often pick a date, decide on the venue, and figure out where they will serve food. Yes they happen, but if you are trying to follow the way of Prophet Muhammad SAWS you won't have a secret marriage. Two adult (baligh) male Muslim witnesses. Or else He would of asked for one more witness. Nikah means marriage and halala means to make something halal, or permissible. Naila Amin was 13 on her wedding day in Pakistan. Just tell me the minimum requirements of nikah.because my dad is n0t agre.bt my m0m,and m0m dad of the bride are agree.can we d0 a secret nikah,like n0 cr0wd.just me,my m0m and bride with her m0m dad and her 2 sis with their husbands.and 2 or 3 friends of mine.is a m0lvi is must?or a nikah nama?or is it imp0rtant to get the qazi of y0ur own area? if a boy and girl both desperately love each other but parents are not agreeing at all, infact the girl's father tries to forcefully marry her to another man who she does not consent to and in these conditions if the girl and boy run away and do court marriage then is it not right.? http://darululoom-deoband.com/english/books/nikah.htm#. This is one of the proudest moments of my life.. AoA..plzz tel me ..we can do nikah orally without any written statement ..jxt by reading nikah's kalmatalso have witnessbut without the permission of parents..its just a secret nikahis it valid in islam??? I need some urgent help from an aalim or a mufti. Lekin if they force u for nikah tu wo invalid b hai n gunah b on behalf of parents awin na islam ko or khencho. Anyone considering nikkah without legal documentation according to their local government should be extremely cautious, especially if they are not in an Islamic country. Aamir, a qadi is not necessary. If the father is deceased or there is some reason that he cannot walk her down the aisle, so to say, then another male guardian or relative can take on that role. thank you. Create an account, If you do not have an account, you can click the button below to create one, Create new account With all that in mind, Imam Elturk outlines the six ceremony requirements of a Nikah ahead. What feels like a fix is a trick of shaytaan to put you in despair! Please log in and write your question as a separate post and give us more information about your situation - for example why can't your brother act as wali? Agr koi lrka ya lrki phone py nikkah wali service sy nikkah kr lain tu kya nikkah ho jata hah dono alag alag cities mai thy or nikkah perhnay wala or city mai thi voice call thi or us ny kaha yahan 2 gawah b hain. Thridly, a wali is her father. And, "at least can enjoy as if they are married"? the islamic engagement is completely marriage. Malik, it's good that you want to make your relationship halal by way of marriage. i wanna ask if we are married or not? and an irregular marriage imposes certain rights and obligations on both contracting parties. Plx reply. I have read various views on the authority of the wali who in many cases is the father. Nikah with a non muslim is HARAM ( FORBIDDEN ), astaghfirullah sister, inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji'oon. Mutah is haram. It is haram to have any physical contact with him whatsoever. saima, your friend's nikah is invalid. Yes, you can get married without a marriage license. Then the woman is left with either kids to bring up or high and dry! Let me tell you the all story. nikkah is an agreement b/w bride and groom,and for any agrement it is stated in QURAN that there must b some witness,now wiitness could be a piece of paper of agrement,which contain information of agrement,bieng specific for nikkah piece of a paper in which details of both bride n groom must b written,both should accept these details and no 1 should deny after some time How many witnesses do I need for me and my bride ? And she searching the muslim places There are three kinds of marriage, 1) valid , 2) void and 3) irregular If doing Nikah can prevent worse sins than its better to do it any way. Roja, this doesn't make sense to me and doesn't sound like any kind of nikah. can i marry with my gf secretly bcoz she was dosnt want any one know about us. Good point about Allah being the only witness. Slam.i had done nikah withoiut witneses..someone told my husband that it is valid whn we do nikah in the witness of Allah..we made Allah as a wiutness coz iur family doesnot know about our relationship..n i dont want to do zinna..we r in relationship for last one year-..bt then i came to know tht it is not valid? I want again proper nikah with papers and parents permission. My parents were present and nobody objected during the wedding. May Allah swt make the difficult easy for you! Abdullah ibn Umar, Abdullah ibn Zubayr, Abdur Rehman bin Mahdi and Uthman have said that it is not obligatory to have witnesses at a Nikah. Read the advice already given. Food is a key element that you should plan for, though. Go to your nearest city hall. what happens if your husband has got hold of documents, and is not registering it with nadra for a long time. For more information on how to obtain a marriage license please visit: https://ottawa.ca/en/residents/laws-licences-and-permits/marriages-deaths-and-oaths, COVID UPDATE (as of July 17): Men are predatory and know what other men think like. Most of the top 20 countries with the highest prevalence rates of child marriage are in Africa, with Niger having the highest child marriage rate in the world. Did he went and said how dare you? In order for a marriage to be valid , there must be agreement from both parties, and the presence of the womans wali (guardian) and two Muslim witnesses of good character, and there should be no impediments in the case of either partner. The hadith literature have to be noted in context. can I do this plz help me in this problem. (Off-site at separate location) $100 for paying-members of Masjid Ikhlas, $150 for non-paying members. What is Rukhsati? Islam gives liberty to individuals under rules but i don't think so that it makes us slaves of our parents. saba, I deleted the remainder of your comment. Marriage in Islam requires two witnesses. To answer the one question posed by most people, is the nikah valid? .. and then one more thing the boy never showed nikah nama to that girl. Amazing to see few of you have quoted hadiths, but have no deeper knowledge of the hadith, such as the 15 types of knowledge required to understand verses of Quran and Hadith. (Mutual consent of bride and groom, payment of mahr, consent of bride's wali, publicizing of the marriage with a waleemah). The following conditions apply here: Both parties accept Nikah. OTHERWISE, IF THE girl NEVER BEEN MARRIED , THEN NEED PERMISSION FROM HER GUARDIAN, I.E. Then can we do nikkah without our parents or guardians because we both are mature and are willing. Is my marriage accepted in Islam if my family including my father gave my hand in marriage? All Imams have their own fees and are treated as independent contractors. The survivor-led organization provides free legal and social services to help individuals resist or escape. Wali can be father, brother, nearest uncle or Khalifa e Waqt (I understand it as a government now) so isn't government acting when you do court marriage with Nikah? Table of Contents the marriage took place without the knowledge of the walis of both parties. she also should not give him full freedom or full enjoyment. Be that as it may, there is unanimity amongst the majority of the jurists that one does not need witnesses to be in a halal relationship of mithaqan ghalizah. as a mohr i gave her a gold ring does it count as marraige many pepole know that we are married so its not a secret Hi, My bf was a christian but he accepted islam because he respects me as a muslim woman and he knows i cannot get married to a non muslim and he is also practising so he didnt only accept islam just to be married. Agree on witnesses (2 minimum , 1 from each side is recommended). Naaf, the answer to both questions is no. - the consent of both bride and groom. The contract itself is known as nikah. A woman and man may be married and divorced a 100 times, of course within the limits of the din, but the fact of the matter is that the relationship is halal! Additionally, you may want to consider a wedding venue right beside the mosque, providing easy access to prayer during prayer time, and privacy while youre enjoying your happy moment. The Prayer of Need (Salat al-Hajah) or Istikhara? A foreign divorce is without effect if it was obtained by fraud or by denial of natural justice. Imam Elturk explains that the Wali gets consent from the bride and does not give her away without her permission. Revert to those books of fiqh and peruse carefully the opinions of the various jurists. Booking schedule for 2023 will be available October 14th, 2022 inshaAllah. Depending on your family and culture, the type of food may vary. rafaqat, please submit your question as a separate post. In order to marry, you need permission of your Wali, two witnesses over the Nikah, and most importantly, Nikah needs to be done - by a Qaadhi/Imam. How can you make a haraam situation halaal by doing something haraam? SALAM All guests will be guided to the musallah. After all the guests have exited the center, the area will be sanitized. Therefore, If you really want to marry him then tell him to approach your family and insha'Allah marry him in Islamic way. She is currently working on a federal bill to have U.S. 1. If both the man and woman are mature, they can perform their own nikah. And if there were no wali no witnesses and two people accepted each other as husbnd and wife in terms of nikah so if this nikah is not valid than can the girl do a real nikahwith someone else What is the case of a couple who want to marry by way of nikah yet the father of the prospective wife has NO cogent reason for his refusal to marry his daughter to a very upright man. plz plz plz khuda k waastay help karain or detailed answer day dainnn. Were talking about that rare legislation that harms no one except child rapists it costs nothing. The Virtues and Rights of Marriage. Is this a new tech way of doing nikah? It is a serious sin. meri czn ko zinnah say bachaiye. IF A MARRIAGE LICENSE HAS NOT BEEN OBTAINED PRIOR TO THE NIKKAH, PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT THE MASJID OR THE IMAM AS WE WILL NOT BE ABLE TO PERFORM THE NIKKAH. The early scholars of Islam reported that it was a great blessing to conduct the marriage ceremony inside the mosque. Agree on a dowry before the wedding day; and inform the Imam, if you want it to be written in the Islamic contract, or written as agreed upon. and irregular marriage can be turned into vaild marriage later by producing witnesses she trying to change as Islamic lady we both tried 3 years to convince our families We are not scholars or muftis. nikaah means family and family means mutually accepted decisions which means you have to ask your family members to help you and support you and be there for you in the nikah. altaf, there is no secret marriage or marriage without witnesses in Islam. You must obtain a marriage license from the city/county clerk before the day of the Nikah ceremony. They are not agree now because I am just 21. 1. I have also noted the issue of the presence of the two witnesses. When I found out about it, I was laying on a couch and I just started crying tears of happiness, she said. i took nikah naama attested from union council . This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc. \n\/p> Forget about this match, brother. 2. We love each other both mature. Judicial witness is the paper which you sign, social and ethical witnesses are those two human beings. Child marriage in the U.S. is typically driven by poverty or social and cultural norms. If even one of them is missing your marriage is void/null/invalid. I pray five times daily and so does she Alhamdolilah. There's no secret marriage, when you marry a girl or she did to you , it has to be admitted in public. There are circumstances in which a person is deemed unable to be your wali (eg. Policy Regarding travel of Imam off-site: Please note that the Imam is volunteering his own . Amin says this is only the beginning, as her goal is to end child marriage in all 50 states. Yes, it is free. Why can't you tell your parents? May you have a very blessed Ramadan. Vous trouverez des renseignements sur les documents relatifs aux naissances, mariages et dcs, incluant comment et o les consulter, sur les pages d'information provinciales et territoriales suivantes: Alberta. Asslamualykum I want to know I'm staying with my lady since 8 years we got 3 children as far as ava family's are agree is it anything wrong in that. Is nikkah possible on message without witnesses ???????????? it's not permitted for a couple to be intimate without a Nikah, so the ceremony . i mean with witnesses and families are present on the occasion, but ijab o qabul is done by bride and groom as of thr own at the occasion infront of everyone? Asalaamalikum,i like someone and he likes mee too and we hv a clean reltnshp n untill now want to b in a halaal relatnshp i want to b in his nikah and my famly is against dis reltnshp wht m i suppose to do ?? and i cannot tell my parents about it n her father died and she cannot tell her mother. if a boy and girl both desperately love each other but parents are not agreeing at all, infact the girl's father tries to forcefully marry her to another man who she does not consent to and in these conditions if the girl and boy run away and do court marriage then is it not right.?